It feels like you and your partner have become roommates.
Ships passing in the night.
Between working, taking care of what needs to get done around the house, and trying to keep everything afloat, you seem to have lost each other.
You bicker over what seems to be the smallest things. And arguments seem to take on a familiar pattern: One person attacking and criticizing while the other one ignores or leaves the room entirely. Both of you are left feeling unappreciated and alone.
To all of your friends, you’re the star couple — they one they all look up to…which makes it even harder to confide in them or get support, because you don’t want anyone to know that you both have been fighting more than ever. You feel stuck.
When I work with busy, professional couples, I often remark that it seems like they give their best to their customers, clients, and patients…and then there is nothing left of them by the time they come home.
It’s hard to make your partner a priority when you’re exhausted at the end of the day.
You both know something has to change. And you both want it to change. You still deeply care for each other, but something has to change. Your fights aren’t productive, and you both have worked too hard to let your relationship fall by the wayside.
You want to feel like a team again. Like it’s you two against the world.
You want to enjoy being intimate and look forward to date nights, rather than treating them as an obligation.
You still love your partner, you just want them to appreciate how hard you work and all that you do for your family.
You want to get back to being that couple you used to be, before life got in the way.
I can help you get there.
So how does it work?
First, you’ll schedule your free, 20-minute phone consultation so that I can answer any questions you may have about counseling. If you decide to move forward, then you can schedule your intake session with me over the phone or online.
Prior to your first appointment, you and your partner will each complete the intake paperwork online using your own customized client portal.
There, you can complete all of your paperwork at your leisure from the comfort of your own home. There’s no need to arrive early to your first appointment, as I will already have had the chance to review your paperwork and learn about your unique situation.
The intake session is 1.5 hours and includes both of you.
This first session is not as scary as most people think it’s going to be. I spend most of the time just getting to know you and your relationship: I’ll ask questions about how you first met, what things drew you to one another, and then we’ll talk a little bit about the challenges that have led you to therapy.
At that point, we’ll come up with a plan for our time together. You’ll each share your goals for therapy, and I’ll give you a rough estimate of how many sessions to expect.
Don’t wait another day to get your relationship back on track. Schedule your free, no-obligation 20-minute phone consultation today.
I can help. Click Here to schedule your free, 20-minute phone consultation and get started today.